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BarnBuster

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Gulp, I do this, I think it's an old guy way?

35. Don’t address two or more women as “ladies.”
It’s oddly creepy when it comes from a man, and in other contexts, it reads as an unnecessary attempt to feign some kind of unity or connection between women.
 
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Dr.Amber Trichome

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Gulp, I do this, I think it's an old guy way?

35. Don’t address two or more women as “ladies.”
It’s oddly creepy when it comes from a man, and in other contexts, it reads as an unnecessary attempt to feign some kind of unity or connection between women.
it’s friendly and that’s a good thing! Keep
Smiling ladies love guys that smile!but quickly look away . But don’t stare, Never stare . That oozes creepville. The guys in this town love to stare and when I catch them they quickly look away. Then I wonder how long have they been staring ? Worse than that is staring and then smiling, OMG. Total creepville.
 

BarnBuster

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it’s friendly and that’s a good thing! Keep
Smiling ladies love guys that smile!but quickly look away . But don’t stare, Never stare . That oozes creepville. The guys in this town love to stare and when I catch them they quickly look away. Then I wonder how long have they been staring ? Worse than that is staring and then smiling, OMG. Total creepville.
Yeah, I only use that when it's two or more females that I know well enough to have a casual conversation with. I don't think in today's atmosphere I would say that to anyone I don't know or hadn't met before. You know when I was still working 15 years ago with women I knew, we (they and I) would think nothing of saying, Oh you got a haircut, that's a nice dress/tie/perfume you're wearing but I guess now that's verboten.
 
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Dr.Amber Trichome

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Yeah, I only use that when it's two or more females that I know well enough to have a casual conversation with. I don't think in today's atmosphere I would say that to anyone I don't know or hadn't met before. You know when I was still working 15 years ago with women I knew, we (they and I) would think nothing of saying, Oh you got a haircut, that's a nice dress/tie/perfume you're wearing but I guess now that's verboten.
I think perfume is repulsive. oMG. Those perfume departments at the malls are highly toxic. I have gotten migraines and almost puked my brains out trying to shop having to breath that smell in. People that wear perfume have a mental health issue.
 

GreatwhiteNorth

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it’s friendly and that’s a good thing! Keep
Smiling ladies love guys that smile!but quickly look away . But don’t stare, Never stare . That oozes creepville. The guys in this town love to stare and when I catch them they quickly look away. Then I wonder how long have they been staring ? Worse than that is staring and then smiling, OMG. Total creepville.
I can't really care less about being pc. I will continue to be polite to all people and particularly the fairer sex regardless.
 

Grandpapy

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it’s friendly and that’s a good thing! Keep
Smiling ladies love guys that smile!but quickly look away . But don’t stare, Never stare . That oozes creepville. The guys in this town love to stare and when I catch them they quickly look away. Then I wonder how long have they been staring ? Worse than that is staring and then smiling, OMG. Total creepville.
It use to be "paranoid in public don't look at anybody"
Now it's "I wonder if they are as high as me?, this chair is nice and warm, I wonder if they are as high as me". Oh I'm staring.
 
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