...This is my first grow... I beat this plant basically into being then for more fun i pollinated her with the other plant i had growing.
i dont know if i am not understanding you but you say you purposefully pollinated your first grow? Thats a new one.
...400 watt hps 4x4x6.5 tent temps in mid 80s occasionally climbing higher.
You need to bring that temp down. with a 400 watter in 100 square feet you need a good amount of cooling unless your house is good and cold to begin with.
If you want a DIY for a cooltube I will have to get back to you in the morning... its too late and im too out of it to be giving a DIY, but a cooltube is the best way to keep temps down with a 400 watter. you can put as many fans as you want in there but that will only blow the hot air around. Not to mention the fans motor creates heat. fans are better for air movement to ensure proper CO2 intake.
RO water is great for ph and salt buildup but since it is missing many naturally occuring minerals (as the RO process removes almost all minerals, [7 ppm compared to spring water at close to 300 ppm]) you will need to feed with micronutriens sooner. soil will go for about 2 weeks give or take until it needs some repleneshing.
The buds are pathetic and barely a inch big cola. Big seeds at every bud sight.
This is because the plant is focusing its energy on seed production rather than organ (flower or bud) production. the plant "feels" as if it has acheived its goal by having seeds to reproduce.
I put 2 in veg, and the other 2 straight into 12 and 12.
is it an autoflowering strain? because you might just be wasting your time.
How much longer till the plant is harvest ready u think?
alwats depends brutha,, just a tip though,, dont go by the hairs go by the trichromes (crystals). look at them closely, if they are clear you are nowhere near ready to harvest, milky means you are getting closer and "amber" means they are ready.
another tip. a dying plant will exhibit red, or dried, hairs (stigmas), and this does not mean the plant is ready for harvest. It means it is dying.