gf doesnt like me growing...

Dabu

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The girl I'm dating (while I trust her with my life) doesn't really like the fact that I grow, and secondly, she doesn't like it when I call the plants 'my girls'

Anyone ever had to deal with this? If so, what did you do think I should do? I might go move my set up so that it's out of sight, out of mind.
 

korvette1977

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Set down the law.... Tell her that she's your BITCH and the plants are just your girls .. You gotta show that pussy just as much if not more attention then the plants ...
 

cooker06

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fuck that we all know she wont understand get online and show her marijuana shouldnt be a drug it can help alot more than i can harm. tell her to open her mind and read into it then make her decition.... there is nothing wrong with weed quick getting fuckin brain washed with shit.... read into it,...

nothin mean meant by anything i just said i'm very passionate though... good luck bro
 

Johnnyorganic

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Simply put, she is jealous. She resents the way you caress them and call them your girls. SHE is your girl! I imagine she resents the time you spend not just growing, but just being with your girls.

If you want to keep her, you need to show her in a deep way, that you care for her more than you care for your girls. Get that look in your eyes when you think about your girls around her. Focus on her needs with the same enthusiasm you show for your girls.

Combine the two whenever possible. For instance, I've never met a girl who turned down a foot massage from their man. Maneuver the situation so that, if she wants a foot massage, she gets it in the grow room.

Flowers work, too. A bunch of daisies can work wonders.
 

cooker06

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AH FUCK ME!!!! nice advise i'd go with johnny he knows what he's talkin about sounds like... im looking at diff... intrests than you you love her i dont sorry for that wac advise towards a girl
 

passking

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I've never met a girl who turned down a foot massage from their man. Maneuver the situation so that, if she wants a foot massage, she gets it in the grow room.

i lol

LOL
 

raeman1990

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hey man i had a similar situation, my gf found out i was growing and she was pretty cool with it cause she smokes, but she got really mad when i said "my girls" are doing good or what ever, so i just stopped saying it.

just dont talk about ur plants in front of her, so she can try to forget
 

yotone

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i was in the same boat as you. all i heard was, "you smoke too much, blah blah blah." and i was like, "barbara, i know.."
now its like this, "tony I watered your plants for you"
im like, "thanks christine"
 

Seamaiden

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Give that woman a RIGHTEOUS blow job and all will be well with the world. Like I always tell my husband, a blow job can fix up just about any misunderstanding. :D It appears that he's gotten more into my grow than I have, and is now talking about making some money with it. I told him that I have absolutely NO plans to go that route, as I don't plan on ever becoming "popular" that way. I'll share with friends and family, and that's as far as it goes.

My bike is a "she", and she doesn't get jealous, is always ready, and accepts whatever fashion statement I put on her.
 

mygirls

Medical Marijuana (MOD)
The girl I'm dating (while I trust her with my life) doesn't really like the fact that I grow, and secondly, she doesn't like it when I call the plants 'my girls'

Anyone ever had to deal with this? If so, what did you do think I should do? I might go move my set up so that it's out of sight, out of mind.
tell her she will like them when they get donky dick for buds.LOL HA HA
 
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