The Late 30s Suck For Guys?

Wavels

Well-Known Member
This piece is pretty interesting.
I suspect this age bracket is very well represented here at RIU....
For me these years are well behind me.
In retrospect, I would have to agree with the articles point.
I am doing better in my current decade, I think a lot of this improvement has to do with my growing lots of stuff, but of course, it's due mostly to oodles of sticky, smelly ganja buds.:mrgreen:


Why the late-30s are a man's misery years

Why the late-30s are a man's misery years | News | This is London

Some might say that all they have to worry about is getting to work on time and the onset of a little middle-aged spread.
But men in their late-30 and early-40s are the least content of all of us, it seems.Whether they are mourning the passing of their prime or struggling to cope with the demands of a job and young family, those aged 35-44 invariably hit a mid-life crisis when their happiness level plunges lower than at any other age, according to a study for the Government.
It makes them the least satisfied members of society, scoring well below teenagers, the elderly - and women of all ages.
Researchers found that it takes men until they reach the age of 65 to start enjoying life as much as they did in their late-teens and early-20s.
More than 1,600 people were asked to score their wellbeing on a scale of one to ten in the study, part of the British Market Research Bureau survey of Britons' attitudes towards themselves,
The overall average satisfaction level for both sexes was 7.3.
Most men rated their carefree teenage years between the age of 16-24 as one if their happiest periods, with an average score of 7.55 out of ten.
But halfway through their careers, satisfaction levels dipped to a low of 6.8, only rising again to nearly 7.8 once they had crested retirement age.
The report found that women are less buoyant in their teens than men, rating their wellbeing at 7.3 out of ten.
Women said their worst years were between the age of 25 and 34, when most are coping with young children, but their wellbeing rose steadily as they got older, reaching hit a peak satisfaction level of 7.65 when over the age of 65.
Researchers found that most people rated their time at university as the best years of their life, closely followed by their retirement years.
The biggest difference between the sexes was in the contentment of those not working, with women far happier than men to stay at home not seeking work.
Overall, 74 per cent of the UK population reported that they feel positive about themselves.
But women are more likely to fret, with almost half admitting that they worry a lot, compared to less than a third of men.
 

Garden Knowm

The Love Doctor
WOW.. very interesting.... The median age of people in the USA is 35 years old... HALF the people are over 35 and HALF the people are under the age of 35....
 

fdd2blk

Well-Known Member
so here's the thing. i just turned 41. i've been on this site for months telling of the past. then there's all the lost contacts that i have recently reconnected with. it makes me miss those younger years. but then i think, wait, i have these memories. i will hold these close to my heart and remember them as "other times" i'm as happy now as i was then. but in a whole new way.
 

skunkushybrid

New Member
so here's the thing. i just turned 41. i've been on this site for months telling of the past. then there's all the lost contacts that i have recently reconnected with. it makes me miss those younger years. but then i think, wait, i have these memories. i will hold these close to my heart and remember them as "other times" i'm as happy now as i was then. but in a whole new way.
Well said... and this is from a guy THAT KNOWS.
 

Token

Well-Known Member
I think I'll be fine. I'm 33 next march. I still look 25. I'm not worried.:mrgreen:
I have the same genes i'm 20 and i look 14 and sucks right now, but i can't wait til i'm 40 and still look like i'm 28:mrgreen:.


and as for your age making you sad i think why 30 year olds get sad is they realize like i have now all you get is a weekend of freedom then its back to work and then repeat what kinda life is that none, I'm depressed already because i have seen my life lay'd out b4 me and i don't want to live like that.
 

fdd2blk

Well-Known Member
I have the same genes i'm 20 and i look 14 and sucks right now, but i can't wait til i'm 40 and still look like i'm 28:mrgreen:.


and as for your age making you sad i think why 30 year olds get sad is they realize like i have now all you get is a weekend of freedom then its back to work and then repeat what kinda life is that none, I'm depressed already because i have seen my life lay'd out b4 me and i don't want to live like that.

please, don't. :peace:
 

Token

Well-Known Member
I'm happy with my social life, just not my working life and thats almost my hole life, i think i just need to find a better job that i'm happy with.:blsmoke:
 

Garden Knowm

The Love Doctor
I just want to go to the beach everyday and play hard..

The only problem I have noticed with getting older is....

The young hot chicks are .. are... well.. just young... and I desire a more evolved woman... young woman can be VERY VERY smart... but few people have wisdom and those that do have wisdom are usually older.. 30+

and many people.. woman included who are 30+ are out of shape and married and OLD... and MENTALY beat down.. closed minded, scared.. and stuck in their ways..

occasionally, of course I come across a few people who actually give a shit about their MIRACLE (the human body) and have a wise soul to boot....


disregard everything I just said...

iloveyou
 

skunkushybrid

New Member
I just want to go to the beach everyday and play hard..

The only problem I have noticed with getting older is....

The young hot chicks are .. are... well.. just young... and I desire a more evolved woman... young woman can be VERY VERY smart... but few people have wisdom and those that do have wisdom are usually older.. 30+

and many people.. woman included who are 30+ are out of shape and married and OLD... and MENTALY beat down.. closed minded, scared.. and stuck in their ways..

occasionally, of course I come across a few people who actually give a shit about their MIRACLE (the human body) and have a wise soul to boot....


disregard everything I just said...

iloveyou
My gf is nearly 30 now, she's had 3 kids in the past 4 years and is now back down to her usual size 10. That's an 8 to you yanks. She works out every day.

I agree about the young chick thing, they look good, yes. But for me sex isn't just about sex. I need to have a connection with the woman I'm sleeping with. I've always been this way, which is why I've never had sex with a prostitute, at least in the sense that I've never paid for it.

I love mature women. Little girls just don't float my boat.
 

Garden Knowm

The Love Doctor
Little girls just don't float my boat.
Yeah, I always forget that... until they open their mouths... then they just seem like my kid sister... (i dont have a kid sister, but you get my drift)

I am ok with the LACK of maturity... But, your right.. it'snothing you want to stick your KAK in to... there is just THAT connection missing...

and thanks for the dress size conversion :)
 

skunkushybrid

New Member
Yeah I know what you mean about the kid sister thing. It just ruins everything when they open their mouths... to talk, that is. lol
 

gotdamunchies

Well-Known Member
My late teens and my 20s were clouded by a haze of booze, cocaine, meth, LSD, pills, strippers, shitty jobs, and a total lack of self respect, then my 30th birthday hit and I put it into overdrive!! In less than 4 months months I hit bottom (wasnt a very long fall), bounced a few times and settled on the bottom...Then when I took the challenge of sobriety on my own, after 3 previous trips to rehab totalling a year of my life, and finally got it...now looking at 40, I have THE woman, a GREAT kid, and a better grip on reality, and truly feel that the best years are yet to come...age is just a number...happiness and being content with life is based on life experiences and what you take from them, not some number..........
 

Miracle Smoke

Well-Known Member
My late teens and my 20s were clouded by a haze of booze, cocaine, meth, LSD, pills, strippers, shitty jobs, and a total lack of self respect, then my 30th birthday hit and I put it into overdrive!! In less than 4 months months I hit bottom (wasnt a very long fall), bounced a few times and settled on the bottom...Then when I took the challenge of sobriety on my own, after 3 previous trips to rehab totalling a year of my life, and finally got it...now looking at 40, I have THE woman, a GREAT kid, and a better grip on reality, and truly feel that the best years are yet to come...age is just a number...happiness and being content with life is based on life experiences and what you take from them, not some number..........
DAMN RIGHT!


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