Random Jibber Jabber Thread

kinetic said:
Dealing with a bank and not a credit union is one flaw. Having no actual proof except your word on these hidden high interest returns on savings isn't going to garner you any positive responses. Not being a dick, just stating what I'm seeing.
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The point is not to tell people where to find it, otherwise everyone would be doing it.
 
Fuck the baby momma drama and just pay the girl. The kid is what matters not her games. In my opinion receipts should HAVE to be shown to the courts that the money being paid is being used for kids things, not boyfriend's new xbox or girlfriends mani/pedis. I'm one of the lucky ones from a broken home where the parents got along better after the seperation. That was a long time ago when $40 in groceries would get you 4-5 brown bags full of goods.
 
kinetic said:
Fuck the baby momma drama and just pay the girl. The kid is what matters not her games. In my opinion receipts should HAVE to be shown to the courts that the money being paid is being used for kids things, not boyfriend's new xbox or girlfriends mani/pedis. I'm one of the lucky ones from a broken home where the parents got along better after the seperation. That was a long time ago when $40 in groceries would get you 4-5 brown bags full of goods.
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Bro I been paying since she was 1. She is 15 now. She is my baby girl. Her mom is lucky I'm a responsible guy. We keep it cordial for the most part. But she is still in love with me. So she makes it awkward. I provide health insurance , dental , pay for her school , pick her up the whole nine.

I keep all receipts . but what annoys me is the 6:30 am text of "payday". 3 more years and my kid comes home with me.
 
The world needs more good dads, glad to see a guy doing the right thing. I would be pissed about the 630 text too!
 
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Yup.

I'm just sitting in my kitchen listening to youtube videos all morning.
 
the wifes ex is a huge douche. He is some 18 thousand behind in support simply because he refused to pay it for close to ten years. He didn't think she "deserved" the money since she left their relationship! wtf?
It's not that he couldn't.....he just wouldn't. The guys a contractor and makes damn good money. But all cash.

He hasn't had a drivers liscence for ever cuz it was suspended for non support and has been to prison several times for nonsupport.

Finally he grew up a bit after they caught him for DUS and hauled his ass back up in front of the judge. This judge threw the book at him. 5 Years prison this time unless he starts paying his back support. He's missed a few months here and there but for the most part pays.

Of course now he makes a big production out of every 300$ payment that is sent.

FUCKING MORON

I can't wait till these kids are grown then we won't have to deal with this fool anymore.

FIVE more years
 
curious2garden said:
Is the actual date you pay her child support a surprise? LOL I'd turn my cell phone off the night before :) You'll sleep longer that way.

Another idea is automatic deposit, poof no longer in the middle!
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No not a surprise. Its always the second payday of the month. I'm up at 5 am anyway. Its not the fact of me giving money that bothers me. My financial situation is not awesome right now. I have my 6 year old and a stepson that I've raised since he was 10 ( now his dad is a loser ass chump, and my wife is no where as annoying or bitchy like my ex) . Her ass is in a nice home all cozy n shit. She knows my situation. Its weird. Hard to explain. I was just venting. Because I know she relies on the money more than my kiddo. Me and my first born have no secrets. But is all good in the hood.

Considering the fucked up person I used to be and kinda still am. I applaud myself. I'm not a dead beat dad
 
TripleMindedGee5150 said:
No not a surprise. Its always the second payday of the month. I'm up at 5 am anyway. Its not the fact of me giving money that bothers me. My financial situation is not awesome right now. I have my 6 year old and a stepson that I've raised since he was 10 ( now his dad is a loser ass chump, and my wife is no where as annoying or bitchy like my ex) . Her ass is in a nice home all cozy n shit. She knows my situation. Its weird. Hard to explain. I was just venting. Because I know she relies on the money more than my kiddo. Me and my first born have no secrets. But is all good in the hood.

Considering the fucked up person I used to be and kinda still am. I applaud myself. I'm not a dead beat dad
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If your kid is 14 or older it is very easy to get custody changed. If he/she wants to live with you that's all that matters. The judge will sign off on it expeditiously. Still probably cost ya a grand tho. for the lawyer.

One thing that troubles me about your statement is you saying "you have no secrets with your kid" . That's great and all but sometimes adult situations should be handled by the adults. Involving the children in such things only further complicates their young mixed up brain.

I don't know you and it sounds like you are trying to do the right thing....kudos for that.

I just deal with the wife's ex involving the kids in every little juicy detail of his fucked up life and I see how it is hard on them. Of course he always makes it look like we are the bad guys, and it sucks cuz I wanna tell them how he was an abusive alcoholic controlling asshole who did some pretty awful things to their mother when they were little.....but I can't cuz it wouldn't help the poor kids any knowing this.

There was no love lost after my parents divorced. My mother practically hated my dad but I never heard a cross word spoken. I am thankful for that. Kids should not be burdened by such trivial information, no matter how true it is.
 
Oh no I don't ever say bad things about her mom to her. I mean my personal demons. Like I said me an her mom are pretty cordial. We shoot the shit when we see each other. But this gal is still in love with me. And not tooting my own horn. Ok n all retrospect my n my ex relationship is pretty friendly. Every few months we have spats. But we keep it legit and keep the kid out of it. Oh we tried the court system but damn its even more drama.

I should have read the life handbook. The one next to puff the magic dragon and the pot of gold . I feel better now though.

Now my own dad was a dick. Never divorced my mom but I found out after he died (4 yes ago) that I have 2 brothers. Same age as my 6 yr old. But I do miss the fucker
 
About to head to the bank and raid them of their lollipops and then to the DMV so I can bask in misery while attempting to obtain a new sticker for my license plate. Then call my attorney and talk to him about the situation with the bond money. If I ever get rich im buying him a BMW or fishing boat. Finally I might stop by the Chinese carryout and get some lo mien for lunch on my way back home and smoke a gram joint when im finally home to relieve the stress of being inside of the DMV.
 
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